Desire a Threesome? Here is what you need to know.

Desire a Threesome?

Here is what you need to know:

Navigating the decision to have a threesome involves careful consideration and communication. Whether you are in a relationship and looking to explore together, or you are single and interested in experimenting with others, the most important factors to consider are consent, comfort, and communication. Here are some pointers to help you pick the right person(s) for a threesome (Side note, I know that this is not something for everyone, but there are a lot of curious people out there that would like to know more about this) :

1. Threesome Communication

Discuss Expectations: Before you even begin looking for a third person, it’s crucial that all parties involved discuss their expectations, boundaries, and desires openly. If you’re in a relationship, make sure that you and your partner are on the same page about why you want to have a threesome and what it means for your relationship.

Clear Consent: Consent must be clear, enthusiastic, and ongoing. Everyone involved should feel comfortable withdrawing consent at any time without pressure or guilt.

2. Choosing a Threesome Partner

Friend or Stranger?: Decide if you would be more comfortable with someone you know or a stranger. Each has its pros and cons. Friends may bring a level of trust and comfort, but it can also complicate the friendship. Strangers offer anonymity and possibly fewer emotional complications but require careful screening for safety and compatibility.

Compatibility and Attraction: Ensure that the person is physically and emotionally compatible with all parties involved. Mutual attraction and interest in the experience are crucial.

3. Use Reliable Platforms

Dating Apps: Apps like Feeld are designed for people interested in various forms of non-monogamous arrangements and might be a safer place to start looking than general dating apps.

Community and Social Groups: Certain social media or community groups might cater to those with an interest in expanding their sexual experiences. Make sure these groups are respectful and prioritize safety and consent.

4. Setting Threesome Boundaries

Prior to engaging in any activities, discuss what is and isn’t allowed during the encounter. These boundaries should be respected at all times.

5. Safe Sex Practices for Threesomes

Safe Sex Practices: Talk about and agree on safe sex practices. This includes the use of condoms, dental dams, and other forms of protection. Discuss STI statuses and testing before meeting.

6. Meeting Before the Act

Get to Know Them: It’s often a good idea to meet the potential third in a non-sexual setting first to discuss expectations, boundaries, and to ensure there is mutual comfort and attraction.

7. Check-in Regularly

Emotional Well-being: Check in with each other before, during, and after the experience. It’s important that everyone feels good and supported throughout the process.

8. Handling Jealousy in a Threesome

Handling Jealousy and Insecurity: It’s possible that seeing a partner with another person can evoke jealousy or insecurity, even if you thought it wouldn’t. Discuss potential emotional responses and how you will handle them.

Choosing the right person for a threesome is ultimately about finding someone who respects the boundaries and desires of all involved, and where all parties feel secure and excited about the experience. Always prioritize open communication, consent, and safety.

I hope this gave at least a few of you some idea as to what this entails if you desire having a threesome, if you would like more insight or a little more detail or you would just like to ask some questions, please feel free to contact us and we will try our best to help guide you in the right direction.