About Us
About Forsaken Secrets
At Forsaken Secrets, we believe in the power of exploration, pleasure, and intimacy. Our mission is to create a safe and welcoming space for individuals and couples to embrace their desires without judgment. We offer a carefully curated selection of adult toys, accessories, and intimate products designed to enhance your most personal experiences.
Beyond our range of products, we host exclusive events for men, women, and couples, providing a unique opportunity to connect, explore, and engage in intimate experiences. Whether you’re attending solo, with a partner, or as a couple, our events are designed to encourage openness, communication, and discovery. Additionally, Forsaken Secrets can cater for Bachelor and Bachelorette parties, offering a memorable, personalized experience for your special occasion. We also offer one-on-one advisory sessions to help couples rekindle their intimacy and passion, guiding them towards a deeper connection. For singles, we provide personalized consultations to help them explore their own intimacy and discover the best-suited toys for their pleasure and satisfaction.
Whether you're beginning your journey into self-discovery or seeking to bring new excitement into your relationship, Forsaken Secrets is here to guide you. With a commitment to quality, discretion, and customer satisfaction, we provide more than just products and events — we offer an opportunity for empowerment, confidence, and connection.
Our Team
Nakita H
Founder and Curator
“I’m Nakita, also known as Mrs. Forsaken and the Forsaken Whisperer on our blogs. As one of the owners of Forsaken Secrets, I’ve spent over a decade in the Adult Toy and Event industry, dedicating myself to helping people discover new sides of themselves and their sex lives.
My journey into this world was deeply influenced by my past. Having experienced childhood trauma, I developed a unique understanding of intimacy, connection, and the emotional barriers that can affect one’s relationship with sex. These experiences shaped my approach, allowing me to create a safe, open, and judgment-free space for those seeking to explore their desires, rekindle passion, and embrace their true selves.
Over the years, I discovered my passion for helping people navigate their desires and kinks. I realized there was a significant need for a space where individuals and couples could feel comfortable expressing themselves freely. With this realization, I began turning ideas into reality—creating events and products that empower people to embrace their fantasies, enhance intimacy, and rediscover self-expression.
I am especially passionate about helping women rediscover themselves, embrace their sexuality, and learn to confidently ask for what they want in both their relationships and the bedroom. Too often, women are conditioned to prioritize their partner’s needs over their own—but I want to change that. I want to help women gain confidence, cultivate self-love, and understand that their pleasure is just as important. I encourage them to embrace their kinks and desires without shame or fear, allowing them to step into their full power when it comes to intimacy and sex.
This is where my consultations come in. I work with both married and single women, guiding them through their personal journey of self-discovery, confidence, and sexual fulfillment. Alongside my husband, Calven, I also offer couples consultations, helping partners reignite intimacy, strengthen their connection, and create a more fulfilling relationship.
And so, Forsaken Secrets was born—a space where people can explore, learn, and embrace their true selves without fear or judgment.”
Calven H
Founder and Curator
“I’m Calven, also known as Mr. Forsaken, and I’m one of the owners of Forsaken Secrets.
With over 15 years of experience in the imports, exports, and logistics industries, I’ve developed strong skills in managing operations and delivering high-quality products. But my true passion has always been the Adult industry, which is why I chose to pursue it alongside my wife, Nakita.
My journey hasn’t been easy. I’ve faced challenges that many men can relate to—stress, addiction, financial struggles, and depression. I’ve worked in high-pressure environments while carrying the responsibility of being a family man and the sole provider for my home. Through these experiences, I’ve gained a deep understanding of the struggles men face in their personal lives and relationships, especially when it comes to intimacy and connection.
I know what it’s like to lose intimacy in a relationship and have to fight to regain it. I’ve been through it myself, and I’ve found the path back to passion and connection. Now, I want to help other men do the same. I offer one-on-one sessions for men—both married and single—who are looking to navigate their sex lives, intimacy, passion, and relationships. I also work alongside Nakita, providing consultations for couples who want to reignite their connection and rediscover each other.
I understand that life changes us, but I truly believe that intimacy should always be nurtured. No matter how chaotic things get, your partner should always feel valued and desired. Through Forsaken Secrets, I help men find their way through life’s challenges while keeping their relationships strong, passionate, and fulfilling.
Together, Nakita and I have created a space where people can explore, learn, and embrace their true selves without fear or judgment. My goal is to guide, support, and inspire others to build deeper connections and lasting intimacy.”